Someday, while walking back to my

Someday, while walking back to my vehicle after making sure my daughter is at her classroom, a girl approached me. The girl was crying and feel and so alone. Because I knew her by previous year's class, I entertained her sobbing. She immediately told me that some kids were looking to push her down. There were four of them, 2 girls and a couple of boys, about the same size of the girl who was crying. As a parent, I was astonished! She is only 5 and the various other kids who were hiding behind the best tree were the same age with her. They hid behind the tree for they can see my face looking their way. You can tell by way of a looks and movement, they feel trouble is coming to them.

In respect for your teachers' aide or what you contact yard duty teachers, I gone ahead and talk to one of them to report the incident. This is what occurred:

Excuse me, this girl was pushed down by those kids hiding associated with that big tree.

What happened, Aria?

They pushed me down in addition to tried to hit me. It hurts... (sobbing)

Boys and Girls, come over here... (Boys together with Girls walking to us slowly together with gloomy faces, awaiting bad news) Ask the children what happened...

We abhor her. We don't want to play with her...

Is that so? Say my sympathies to her. Kids do not fight, only adults fight.

That shocked us even more. Sorry? Is it all they need to state to someone hurt physically and emotionally for what they did? The saying "Kids do not fight, only adults" keep playing in my mind? What was she dealing with? I was so disappointed...

As a mother or father, it was hard to understand what had occurred. Four 5 year olds required control Classroom trimmers of the situation by pushing along one 5 year old because they never want to play with her. What proper do these kids have to push someone down? And all they have to carry out is say sorry?

It is always a good thing to put the situation in my shoes to discover it clearly, both ways. If this were my child, I would speak to those kids lovingly. Lovingly, in a way they understand what are the consequences regarding misbehaving and disrespecting someone. Adoringly, talk to them in their level System.Drawing.Bitmap them understand why respect is very important inside growing up. And if I were the child being pushed down, is i am sorry enough to make me feel better? It'll be hard for her to understand that quite a few kids who doesn't like the woman can do things to her physically and all they have to say is a word my sympathies.

Sometimes, it makes me wonder if they are old enough to be called kids, when they want to take care of a few things in their control and when they know what may be the right thing to do when a situation like this transpire. One thing I know very well, children are extremely smart. They learn quick inside copying, feeling, watching, and seeing and hearing. They will be the first one to tell a parent what exactly is cool and the latest craze in school or everywhere. They will know which usually parent side with them and who have to approached on their needs. That they know how to manipulate their parents any time refused to what they were asking. That is a lot for a kid! And apologies is not enough to say when they misbehave and disrespects someone despite realizing it is wrong... and yet they thought to do it anyway.